nobody’s got it all figured out

7/28/20251 min read

welcome back to sunday goods!

there’s this quiet pressure we all feel sometimes—that by a certain age or stage, we should have everything together.

the career, the relationship, the mindset, the routine, the piece

& if we don’t, it feels like we’re behind.

but here’s the truth:

nobody’s got it all figured out.

not the people you scroll past who seem endlessly put together.

not the person who gives the best advice.

not the parent, the teacher, the CEO, or the influencer.

everyone is just doing the best they can with the tools they’ve got.

& honestly? life is a constant process of learning, unlearning, adjusting, starting over, & showing up again.

some weeks feel aligned, others feel lost.

some mornings you’ll be clear & grounded, others you’ll feel like you’re floating with no anchor.

that’s not failure, that’s being human.

you’re not meant to have every answer.

you’re meant to keep asking the right questions :

what feels good for me right now?

what do I need more of?

what do I need less of?

where can I give myself grace instead of guilt?

it’s okay to not know where you’re going as long as you keep choosing what feels true.

it’s okay to pause, to pivot, to not be “on track.”

because the track you’re on is yours & that’s what makes it enough.

so, take a breath today.

you’re not behind.

you’re not broken.

you’re just figuring it out, like the rest of us.

& that’s more than okay.

that’s growth.


love you always,


elle